As a builder needs the correct tools to build a sturdy building. Our tongues should be trowels of love spreading the cement of graciousness, not wrecking balls shattering the nerves of others. If you have had a destructive tongue, replace it with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness & self-control. Galatians 5:22-23. Edify one another until Jesus comes. pg212 *Turning Points with God