A YOUNG LADY FROM CHERRY HILL WRITES, 'DEAR ABBY, A BOY AT SCHOOL HAS ASKED OUT (AND BEEN TURNED DOWN BY) ALL OF MY FRIENDS BUT HE HASN'T ASKED ME. I WANT HIM TO ASK ME TOO, BUT I'M AFRAID THAT IF I ENCOURAGE HIM, HE'LL EXPECT ME TO SAY YES. WHY ARE BOYS SO INSENSITIVE? THANKS MUCHO, SHERRY DILL. P.S. HIS NAME IS TOMMY MARETTI.