THE ABUSIVE GUY WILL START PRETENDING; THAT YOUR NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM. HE WILL EVEN BREAK UP WITH YOU OR LEAVE YOU EVEN IF YOU ARE MARRIED! DON'T FALL FOR IT GIRLS BECAUSE AFTER ALL THE WORK HE PUT IN TO YOU TO BREAK YOU DOWN HE'S NOT GOING ANYWHERE & HE WILL BE BACK SO EXPECT IT