"SOME OF THOSE RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN YOUNGER BOYS AND OLDER MEN -THE SORT OF ‘COMING OF AGE’ RELATIONSHIP- THOSE RELATIONSHIPS IN WHICH THOSE OLDER MEN HELP THOSE YOUNG BOYS DISCOVER WHO THEY ARE AND GIVE THEM SECURITY AND SAFETY AND PROVIDE THEM WITH LOVE AND A RELIABLE, SORT OF ROCK, WHERE THEY CAN’T SPEAK TO THEIR PARENTS."; WELL THAT JUST SOUNDS LIKE PEDOPHILIA WITH EXTRA STEPS