Sorry, but I made sure my child support was paid. If you don't have custody, you owe it to your kids to pay it. Keeping current on it saves yourself a lot of hassle. Visitation denied? She could be charged with contempt of court. If she is an unfit parent, be prepared to prove it in court.
refused to be a deadbeat dad because I had one. Before the thought of women getting equal pay. Mom kept the family afloat with what little she could make, but with 6 kids and the rare support payment, it wasn't easy. Of course, when the check did come through it was wasted on such things as rent, food, gas, electric, and clothes.