A woman could cheat on you and STILL be a decent mother...but now the deed is done, you have a child, you think it's yours and you raise it as your own, you loved your child ike a good parent is supposed to...10 years later you find out that your wife cheated on you and the baby wasn't yours. Regardless of whether the actual biological father is around or not...Do you just stop loving that child and being it's father because it's not really yours? It's not the child's fault. That's all I'm saying...shit like that happens all the time.