So why should these people that also hate America be allowed here? Its coming across like a talking point without much knowledge on the subject.
I'm thinking of refugees that came here in my lifetime and trying to compare the logic. Remember the Vietnamese refugees that came here in the 70s. Woyld you have told them to go back to Vietnam, the adult men, and fight the government? Same with the refugees from Cuba. Actually, on that last bit, some did, as the Bay of Pigs invassion showed. Currently, we have refugees coming here from Guatamala and points South to escape the corruption that their countries are involved in. So ignorant (not stupid, just uneducated) they don't even try to go to a US embassy to see asylum and get refugee status.
The Syrian men that should have stayed and fought? They've already done so, making sure their families got to safety. That safety will not be complete until they are lodged in communities that will accept them. Then what? This is the time period needed to train them because as sure as the sun rises and sets, we will have a world war the Middle East, and we will want soldiers that have more than just "book knowledge" about the area for both covert and overt operations. That's why we need them here to turn their hate of America, if any, into hate against the terrorists. Something that should be easy as their enemy destroyed their peaceful lives. The day when WWIII occurs, our country will use those refugees and their adult children in such operations. Don't think so? How many units that invaded Italy during WWII were only a generation or two away from those lands. Scratch the troops in Germany and find out how many Muellers, Schultzes, and Hoffmeyers were there.
We have, at best, 15 years to prepare these men. Meantime, as the fighting settles down, we can allow whatever dictator to destroy the country from within.