"ETERNAL-MINDEDNESS KEEPS US FROM SILLY ARGUMENTS. THERE’S NO TIME TO FIGHT. WE HAVE BETTER THINGS TO PURSUE THAN OUR INTERESTS. TOO MUCH IS AT STAKE! GOD CREATED US FOR A PURPOSE. WE CAN’T AFFORD TO WASTE OUR LIVES. WE CAN’T AFFORD TO WASTE OUR MARRIAGE BY MERELY PURSUING OUR OWN HAPPINESS."