f you think feminism is about being "anti-male", you're either a "Femnazi" with serious control issues, or you're a "Mennazi" who wants male supremacy, OR, you're just a person who never actually learned history but listened to random things that you've heard from people. If someone taught you differently, (especially in school), they were either misinformed or trying to politicize and indoctrinate you to their own agenda. And there have been plenty of people like that on both "sides". They're the ones who created the "sides" in the first place.
It's not about "privilege" for women over men, or hate, or anything negative whatsoever. It's about normal, basic human rights, real fairness, and courtesy and respect.
Without "women's rights movements" that were lead by women and supported by MEN, your Mom, your sister, and your daughter wouldn't even be able to have her own money or buy a home, never mind make a decision about what "career" she wanted to pursue, that wouldn't even be on the table except for some wealthy people in certain areas. Forget about leaving a husband who abuses her kids, or her. Black men were granted the right to vote in the U.S. (15th amendment) long before black OR white women (19th amendment).
Sadly, the word "Feminism" has been twisted by several media idiots over the years just like they twisted the word "Liberal", both words are used to mean something very different from their real meanings. And sadly, people seem clueless about that, too.
Feminism was not "anti-male", or men in positions of power would never have supported it in the first place. It's "anti-oppression", which is something everyone can relate to, with the exception of people who are power freaks.
People who don't want their daughters to have a normal life, apparently, which is practically normal in some cultures, would be anti-feminist.
(People who want men to lose rights or be treated poorly are not "feminists", theyre supremacists or disordered. Same kind of people who want women to lose rights or be treated poorly.)
I want my stepdaughter to live a real life.