...in the beginning takes time. Takes patience. Understanding. Learning. Flexibility. A willingness to struggle and maybe feel hurt and disappointment. You will not always match perfectly. They may not fit your mental image, or your schedule. But that doesn't mean it isn't love. That it isn't going to work. That it isn't worth it. That it won't become the greatest thing you will ever have. Ever build. Ever earn. Real, True Love.. Don't give up. Don't quit. Don't despair. Have faith. Have Hope. Have love. It will become the greatest achievement in your life because once it matures and takes hold, everything is possible.