Unfortunatly Cooler, it's a redditor post, so you wont get a responce, so I'll respond, good on you, family is family, my uncle adopted 2 children and I think of them as nothing but my blood, they're great kids, I like them better than their older brother who is my blood relative, ha ha, he's a dumbass. Same with my oldest cousin adopted into the family, her and I bin close our whole lives.