I totally understand. Love is a good thing, but when you don't feel the same as the other party, what a pain in the ass. We had a neighbor who quite clearly had a mental issue. My wife and I are kind to people when we first meet them and after a period of time you former your own conclusions. Anyway this one guy wasn't used to being treated decently by total strangers. Every night when we came home from work he was sitting on our front porch just to greet us. Kinda creepy but you had to feel sorry for the guy. After a while he got committed to an institution and we never saw him again.