YOU'RE NOT A NARCISSIST IF YOU'RE UPSET, SICK, ILL, OR ANXIOUS, OR DISAGREE, OR WANT TO TALK ABOUT SOMETHING; BUT YOU'RE A LIKELY NARCISSIST IF YOU ATTACK AND HUMILIATE PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY'RE UPSET, SICK, ILL, OR ANXIOUS, OR DISAGREE, OR WANT TO TALK ABOUT SOMETHING.