Advice Socrates

What's the new hobby?

The problems aren't about the way he is.

I found new guy I like but there's a few problems...

I hope you won't mind me saying this, but it feels weird talking to you about this because I don't think people should have boyfriends or girlfriends when they're your age.

Its finem and he isn't my age. And he lives in the Philippines. And he has already graduated high school.

It is the way he is that makes me like him. He is like the guy I always dream about. Except his name isn't Leon and he isn't my age...and I mean fine in the other comment

I think I'd prefer it if you talked to your other friends about stuff like this.

Is that okay?

Ok. I only choose you first because you are the wisest person I know

I make rings. Here are some that I have made in the past hour...

Very pretty! I like the colors.

Thanks. I just have to be careful with it so the wire doesn't poke out my eyes. But I still have fun doing it. I just have to get my parents to get me more colored wire...

Do they take a long time to make?

Depends on how straight or curled the wire is. And how many times you mess up and how much wire you use...

Your wise. Can you help me out?

What's up?

A guy cheated on me after we dated for almost 4 years and I found he was cheating on me 6 months ago but I am still trying to get over him...

I'm pretty bad at relationship stuff, so I probably can't give you good advice.

If you want to tell me about him, I'm happy to listen though, if you think that would help you. But I would prefer it if you don't tell me stuff that's super-personal though (if that's OK for me to ask).

With all of the free time on my hands with school being out, I've got a new hobby and that's helping.

There's not really much to tell about him. He is nice, strong, silly, cute (to me at least) he was nice when he told me and then he threatened to stab himself when I wouldn't reply. And after the principle found out and sent him home crying (I have no idea what he said to him) he started asking my best friends how I was doing and he done it everyday and they got annoyed but he didn't care. And hearing his voice at school doesn't really help either. One of my friends got suspicious about him while we were still dating though but I didn't believe her. And after I found out he really was, I remembered that she would never lie to me about something like that... And its fine with you asking. Your one of the wisest users on imgflip...

Do you still like him?

A little. But I trying not to. We are out of school now for the summer now but I'm pretty sure the problems will start back in fall.

It does sound like a tough situation to be in. Especially the part where he talked about stabbing himself.

It does when your about to burst out in tears. I was practically obsessed with him. And when I was with him, I felt like there was no danger in the world. My friend Brenda Davenport (she has and imgflip account but only gets on every once in awhile. Her username is Brendadavenport) I pretty much almost had an emotional break down when he threatened to stab him self at the end of the next class after he told me at lunch. I didn't start crying until after I talked to Brenda. I actually went home because I texted my mom asking her to come pick me up and that's not normal for me to do so she knew something was wrong. I still talk to his little sister every now and then. (apparently I am her only friend. And she never brings up her brother after what he did) Brenda tried to cheer me up and it barely worked for a few minutes. I was able to get to 6th period without crying and then I told my art teacher that I need to go to the restroom and when I got in there, I burst out crying. But even the people that didn't like me told me he was cheating on me. And there was a girl I the grade above me (I had failed a grade) that didn't like me noticed I was crying and she never saw me cry until then and asked what was wrong. She didn't tell anyone else but even then, people knew what happened and it spread through the school fast. My dad go really mad when he found out what happened. Another boy (we are friends) kept buying me whole gift bags full of gifts for holidays because he wanted to cheer me up because he knew I was upset. (he did explain that to me...)

It makes me sad to hear about you going through stuff like that.

It helps me to know that I have caring friends both on here and in person that will try to cheer me up. I can always come here to get a laugh and I can always get plenty of hugs from my friends in person when I need them the most. And I also know there are so pretty wise people on here (like you. You are the wisest person I know on here.) that can give me a advice when I need it...

It's always good to have friends!

I don't think I'm really wise (at least not with this kind of stuff), but I do want for you to be happy.

I think you are both ways. I didn't know talking to you about it like that would help as much as it did. Thanks

And it seems you knew what to do and say. And knew asking you for advice was a good idea

That's good, I'm glad it helped.

Want to know what it is?