When finding fault with others, pause, and take a good look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself -
is that me?
"How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ while there is still a beam in your own eye?
You hypocrite! First take the beam out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye."
— Matthew 7:4-5 BSB