I'm sorry you've never been exposed to the full democrat party. They were giving free abortions outside their convention and celebrating it. Please study your own party and maybe leave it. You don't have to become a republican but get out while you still can.
Part of it is upbringing, dad's instill emotional control in women, but its also partly social pressure, or lack thereof caused by social media and feminism morphing from equal rights and equal treatment to do whatever you want with no shame.