AlexFierrosHostage Anouncmet Template

okay, slow down.
1. What happened?
2. Is there any friend you could ask to stay with?

1. So my mom has just been a real asshole lately, like yesterday she got mad at me for having period cramps and like, she physical hurt my sister and has emotionally hurt me, also my parent's religion makes me feel really suicidal and they force me to go to church every week, even if I'm throwing up and they put WAY to much pressure on me with school, the classic be a doctor be a lawyer or something like that, get in to Harvard, but if I even make it that far I want to be an actor and go to the The Juilliard School and I know they would absolutely never approve. Also, they are REALLY homophobic and transphobic, and I'm panromantic and genderfluid.
2. I'm not sure

That is an absolutely horrible situation.
I’d ask around your friend group, see if anyone would take you in. If you can’t, t try and seperate yourself from your Mother as much as you can, even inside. It’s hard. You might need to endure for a bit and hope things get better, but if you can, you need to get out of there. Perhaps consider calling CPS.

I do have one friend who would take me in, but her family is really struggling financially so, well... yeah

Hmm. Are you of working age? If so then you could try to get a job to help support them

In the state I I've in yeah, but I don't know how to get a job

neither do i! (well, i kind of do.)
1. Write a resume. Its basically a summary of your skills and exeperience. Many tutorials online.
2. Find a job searching website and look for jobs in your area. From there you can probably apply and if your resume is good enough, you might get accepted for an interview.
3. Uh… Pass the interview? If you do then you might get a job.
another thing i forgot to add is you have to set up taxes but im sure you americans do it different to us aussies, so i cant help you there.
So that's my advice. See if your friend will take you in if you help work to help their parents (and make some money yourself). If they still cant take you in, i still reccomend getting a job because before and after your shift you can wait a bit outside or something to get away from your mum more

Thanks this was actually really helpful(BTW, with my friend, its not parents, it's parent, no s)

No problem! I hope things get better for you. (Oh, sorry. parent rather than parents.)

By the way
I dont want you to actually run away
I was trying to present a very last resort and how to make it possible

bbee i understand ur tryna help but this is telling a kid to run away from home
its not that simple

I know running away is a bad idea. Its a last resort. I said to call CPS, maybe try spending more time away from home. I have little experience in this area. Running from home is never a good idea. I was just saying things how I saw them. I do not wish for Alex to run away. You're right in that the foster system is shit and stable living is better. But this is the type of situation that I have seen result in depression and suicidal tendencies. Im not sure what the cost of living in america is like, so it may be a while before they can move from home. On top of this, they said their mum was putting pressure on them to go into a career they dont want. So maybe it is wrong to run away. But something needs to be done. And I'd rather Alex at least have a plan for a way out.

i know this situation might suck, but the answer isn’t to run away.
i promise you that your life will get so much harder when you don’t have a stable roof over your head. if you live with friends, cps will get involved and most likely take you away. the foster care system is awful. despise all that you’ve been through, please don’t make a mistake.

Well
I suppose life can end up being like this
But you can hang in there
Maybe ask a friend or a relative (eg like an aunt or smth idk) to stay with?
Life can go on like this for a while, but in the meantime, stay positive! 😊❤
(I'm sorry I'm not good at advice anymore)

i would let other adults know whats happening back home. have a favourite teacher? tell them. tell your freinds parents.

I do hope you can get out of that situation soon